Thoughts
I just be hate walking into a conversation where the other person’s assumption of me is that I’m a bad or stupid person. I don’t want to
have to fight the uphill battle of convincing someone else that I’m acting in good faith.
It feels disrespectful and humiliating.
This is simultaneously about the fact that I use JavaScript on this website and dating.
And I’m not doing fingerprinting and I’m not a rapist but if you look at me and your default assumption is that I am or I could be, then I have to defend the fact that I’m not an evil person before I can even be myself.
I don’t have to clarify this but I’m going to—this is largely my own problem and I don’t expect people to change to accommodate my sensibilities.