Thoughts
I went through like 15 years of my life without any regrets. It was like a policy I had—“I don’t regret things, because at least I learned
from them.”
I think that’s still generally pretty true but one of the things I didn’t appreciate was how decisive I was. I didn’t regret making any decisions because I thought about all of my decisions and made a decision that at least made sense at the time, and I least I learned from it (and I was confident that I would learn from it).
But that doesn’t happen, in the same way, when you’re trying to avoid making decisions.